What's going on?

Eliot and his partner are expecting Baby Vrijmoet #1 in July 2025!
So far, it's going great. :)

If you are a friend/colleague and want to receive a birth announcement card, please send me your mailing address.

If you are a fellow trans/nb/questioning person and want to chat about the "seahorse dad" experience, please feel free to reach out via e-mail. There are relatively few firsthand accounts online, and I want to be an illuminating resource for others. Currently, I know of only one other transmasc gestational parent in astronomy.

I discussed my experience a bit in a recent interview with Astrobites.

How do I get in touch with you this fall?

I plan to keep an eye on my e-mail inbox sporadically in September and more regularly (few times/week) in October and November. Please don't be afraid to send me things to read later. If something is urgent, please indicate that in the subject line, and don't hesitate to send reminders.

If something is really truly important and time-sensitive, Kim Ward-Duong and James Lowenthal have my phone number.